Well, the
calendar says it’s winter and the only way we can tell in South Texas half the
time is the cold water tap actually has cold water coming forth again. I
imagine the wintry weather will sneak in eventually and hopefully bring some much-needed
rain with it. It’s also time to think about the new year and as always, we tend
to make promises to ourselves that generally last about a week. Unhealthy
habits are the most often desired to rid from our life and the hardest to rid
from our life. I’ve found a sure-fire way to reach that goal. Simple human
behavior takes repetitive acts and, experts tell us, in thirty days those acts
become a habit. We have in essence incorporated new behavior in our lifestyle. Of
course, not all new behavior is negative, but some are very unhealthy, socially,
and physically. We tend to recognize unhealthy habits and continually promise
ourselves to get rid of them. So, if it takes thirty days to form a habit it
only makes sense it’s going to take thirty days to break a habit. I contend it
takes thirty-one days because it takes one day to convince oneself to determine
they really want to do it. That’s the hard part. Then it’s one day at a time
struggling to battle and conquer the goal in mind. Thirty days - that’s all! Good
luck!
We have all
seen a toddler crawling around a room, eagerly eyeing furniture that can be
used for leverage when the time comes for “pulling-up.” We have also seen that
toddler reach the “pull-up” stage and move to the walking “without no-holds.” We
rightly praise and encourage such behavior. We know that growth is only achieved
by going beyond present circumstances. What we sometimes forget is that we
(adults) need to grow also. That growth, though it may be imperceptible to the
eye, is still real growth.
Let us consider
some things we need to move beyond in order for us to grow spiritually. Our achievements
will only be as high as our heist goals. If we aspire to be pew-warmers only,
that is all we will be. Our minds will not be engaged in the private study of
the Word of God and our faith will not be challenged by the Word’s clash with
the world in our daily life. We dare not be content with “just being religious.”
Here’s a challenge for us: “Therefore, be imitators of God, as beloved children”
(Ephesians 5:1). That ought to raise our goal. Make 2025 the best year of your
life with determination, and God’s help.
There is no
doubt about it, in this world we will have tribulation (John 16:33), or
trouble. Persecution is to be expected (2 Timothy 3:12). Further, physical accidents
and health failures occur regularly, as does death. Christians are not immune to
any of these things. Therefore, when these occur in our life, we must deal with
them in a realistic, optimistic manner. There is no way that will minimize the
importance of our own health or the personhood of those we love. However, if we
cannot accept the loss of something or someone that/who is truly gone from this
life, we will suffer serious mental and spiritual consequences. Make 2025 the
best year of your life with determination, and God’s help.
We all have
certain limitations. They may be in our physical make-up or circumstances. However,
we can move beyond some of those limitations. For example, we may hold a job
that pays minimum wages. However, that doesn’t mean that we or the job are insignificant.
We can work enthusiastically at any job we may hold (Ecclesiastes 5:1). We can
do the best we can with what God has given and be satisfied in the realization that
we have done so. Make 2025 the best year of your life. Approach it with determination,
and God’s help.
Growth, by its
nature, means moving beyond the present circumstance to even better
circumstances. If we approach it in that manner, even the most disheartening of
circumstances can be faced with courage and optimism. It’s time to go beyond
and grow.