The following
excerpt is from the New York Times opinion column. It was written by novelist Jonathan
Safran as part of a commencement address at Middlebury College. His thoughts
are interesting and eye opening as to the state of our current culture. “A
couple of weeks ago I saw a stranger crying in public. I was in Brooklyn’s Fort
Greene neighborhood, waiting to meet a friend for breakfast. I arrived at the
restaurant a few minutes early and was sitting on the bench outside scrolling
through my contacts list. A girl, maybe fifteen, was sitting on the bench opposite
me, crying into her phone. I heard her say, ‘I know; I know; I know;’ over and
over again. What did she know? Had she done something wrong? Was she being
comforted? Then she said, ‘Mama, I know!’ and the tears came harder. What was
her mother telling her? Never to stay out all night again? That everybody
fails? Is it possible that no one was on the other end of the call, and that
the girl was merely rehearsing a difficult conversation? ‘Mama, I know,’ she
said, and hung up, placing her phone on her lap. I was faced with a choice: I
could interject myself into her life, or I could respect the boundaries between
us. Intervening might make her feel worse or be inappropriate. But then, it
might ease her pain or be helpful in some straight-forward logistical way. An
affluent neighborhood at the beginning of the day is not the same as a
dangerous one as night is falling. And I was me, not someone else. There was a
lot of human computing to be done. It is harder to intervene than no to, but it
is vastly harder to choose to do either than to retreat into the scrolling names
of one’s contact list, or whatever one’s iDistraction happens to be” As human
beings we often find ourselves distracted by so many things. Especially today
in our technological society we are often distracted by email, the Internet,
text messaging, etc. And what we find is that in our society we have lost the
sense of interaction.
“You don’t get
much sunshine in here, do you?” remarked a woman to an elevator operator as
she entered a large department store. “Only what you bring in,” replied the
elevator operator. “Some folks carry enough sunshine around with them to
light others up a bit,” she replied. That’s absolutely true! We can take sunshine
with us - a grateful word, an understanding look, a kind act of service into
the life of another, a well-worded note, or a sincere greeting from a happy
face. All of us are aware of the dark, gloomy days in which we live. One writer
put it this way, “Anyone who is looking for a problem just hasn’t been paying
attention!” The cynic says, “There is no hope!” The atheist says, “There is no
God!” The Lord says, “Let your light shine before men that they may see your
good deeds and praise your father in heaven” (Matthew 5:16). The Christian life
is a life reflecting the light of Jesus. Even while reading this article, you
may be tired and a little “down in the dumps,” but remembering to bring some
thoughtful sunshine into the life of another. The only sunshine that a lot of
people will ever see will be what “YOU BRING IN!”
[Matthew 28:19-20; Mark 16:15-16] While that may be all right for some, for the Christian the inability to interact with others can be disastrous. Jesus commanded His disciples to “Go,” to “go into the world” and teach, proclaim, baptize, and make disciples. Such things require interaction. Jesus is relying on His disciples to talk to those who are lost (Luke 19:10) - to tell others about sin (Romans 3:23; 6:23) - and to show them the path that leads to eternal life (Mathew 7:13-14). In our society of cell phones and computers, with all the usefulness those things bring they can also become a distraction that keeps us from doing our duties as Christians and could come at the cost of a soul in the last day.
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